The Characteristic Of True Love

Everybody may ever do to fall in love. And no rare to do sacrifice for love. Is that right?

Here is a few characteristic of true love.

1). True Love is do sacrifice

Ask yourself, are you willing to sacrifice for your partner? and whether your partner is also willing to sacrifice for you? Try to remember again the problems that make your relationship emotionally disturbed. What happens when the mutual understanding or perhaps sacrifice for the sake of maintaining your relationship?
Are you both put others in dealing with problems in a relationship. If the sacrifice of himself and you just a little bit, maybe it is not true love. What you have is a relationship that could quickly become codependent.

2).True Love intertwined Communications
Communication is very important in a relationship. If you feel it difficult to find a topic of conversation with him, or the important things in life, this is a big problem.

Healthy relationships should be characterized by mild discussions about anything, not just daily life. For example, chat about the past, the future, life goals, beliefs, hobbies, work, or the personality of each other. If you feel able to share their stories without fear of criticism, could be he is your true love.

3).True love is mutual accept changes
True love includes a willingness to change for the benefit couples. Is changing future plans, interior decorating preferences, or others. It also includes the ability to receive and secure feeling to be accepted.

True love means that you can see your partner’s fault, but you accept them as a part of your life. You don’t have to feel that you have to act, talk, dress, think or feel a certain way to be accepted into the person he loves.

4).True love is Respect
Mutual respect by no means always agree with each other, but it doesn’t mean that at a basic level you expand polite and tolerant of each other even in the midst of strife. You must respect the rights of each are different.

And, you have to find a way to compromise and tolerance of each other at times, even though when you don’t feel like giving way. In fact, the characteristics of true love is that you still choose to treat others with respect and gentle, even when you feel otherwise.

5).True Love was full of Love
Affection is important in a relationship. Not only in physical form, but also other romantic touches.
When your girlfriend is able to do a special effort to spend more time with you and want to know you closer to doing something you love, it certainly signs of true love!

6).True Love is need trust
True love will not be born without trust. High honesty can strengthen the relationship, but you can’t build on a foundation that contains no trust from the beginning.

7).True love was mutual understanding
Are you able to understand on your partner? own or your partner are able to understand you.
if any of you there is no mutual understanding and always misunderstood without wanting to resolve the misunderstandings that maybe it would be a big problem.
True love requires a sense of understanding. not mutually selfish and try not to be overly sensitive to every word that came out. sometimes we do not realize that the smallest thing can be a reason for a quarrel.
And when it is necessary to have mutual understanding to discuss the problem and try to understand what really happened. Mutual understanding for what we like and do not like, as well as to what your partner likes and dislikes.

Maybe this is only a few thing about characteristhic of True Love that I can share. May your partner is your true love.

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KISAH SEDIH DAN BAHAGIAKU

381120_409332529126949_1043324428_nJika ingat masa itu,begitu perih rasa hatiku. Namun aku bersyukur Allah masih memberi kekuatan untukku dapat bertahan hingga saat ini. Terkadang aku mengeluh akan keadaanku,tapi aku kembali berfikir lagi bahwa aku tidak perlu mengeluh dan harus bersyukur bahwa Allah masih memberikanku kebahagiaan saat ini. Kebahagiaan itu adalah KELUARGA. Ayah,ibu dan adik-adikku yang selalu ada dan mendukungku.

Perih yang kurasakan saat dulu aku tidak mempunyai apa-apa.  Orang-orang memandangku dan keluargaku begitu rendah. Bahkan ketika adikku sakit,tidak ada yang peduli. Hanya karena saat itu ayahku tidak bekerja, dimana perusahaan tempat ayahku bekerja mengalami kebangkrutan dan terpaksa harus memberhentikan para pekerja. Mungkin saat itu tidak ada yang dapat dibanggakan oleh kami, sehingga orang-orang tidak peduli. Tapi aku tetap bangga pada ayahku,walau bagaimanapun aku sayang dia.

Aku melihat orang-orang tertawa,bersenda gurau. Sedangkan aku,ibu,dan adik-adikku hanya  duduk melihat mereka yang sedang bersenang –senang.  Kucoba menghibur diri,dan tidak merasa iri terhadap mereka. Ini sebuah bahasa hati,aku bahkan tidak perlu untuk mengatakan. Tapi hati ini mendorongku untuk mengungkapkan ke dalam sebuah tulisan.

Kepedihan itu kembali terjadi di saat aku beranjak remaja,masa depanku hancur karena kecelakaan yang terjadi padaku saat itu. Itu awal kisah pedih yang membuat ibuku merasa harus pergi jauh bekerja meninggalkan kami. Saat itu,26 oktober 2006,aku mengalami kecelakaan motor bersama teman dan adik sepupuku.  Kami hendak pergi mengunjungi kakek buyut kami di cianjur selatan sehari setelah hari raya idul fitri. Di perjalanan,seorang pengendara menabrak kaki kananku,sehingga temanku yang sedang mengendarai tidak dapat mengontrol laju motor. Lalu kembali bertabrakan dengan pengendara motor lain.

Orang-orang yang melihat kejadian itu membawa kami ke rumah sakit. Dokter mengatakan saat itu aku harus menjalani operasi untuk wajahku dan amputasi pada kaki ku karena saat itu keadaan tulang kakiku hancur, Oh tidaaaaakkkkk…….Aku tidak dapat membayangkan bagaimana jika dokter melakukan hal itu. Aku dan keluargaku tidak setuju,bagaimana aku akan kehilangan kakiku jika benar-benar harus melakukannya. Dan dari mana kami memiliki biaya yang sangat besar untuk membayar dokter dan rumah sakit. Akhirnya kami pulang ke rumah dan memanggil seorang tradisional dokter untuk mengobati kakiku. Kecelakaan itu membuatku harus terbaring begitu lama dan tidak dapat melakukan apa-apa. Aku merasa benar-benar hancur saat itu dan tidak dapat berfikir tentang masa depan.

Setelah keadaanku mulai membaik, ibu terpaksa pergi meninggalkan kami karena terlilit hutang yang lumayan besar bekas biaya pengobatanku. Akhirnya ibu pergi  jauh untuk bekerja. Hari demi hari aku lewati dengan deraian airmata. Tapi aku bersyukur bahwa keluarga selalu memberikan support agar aku tidak berkecil hati dan terus bersemangat untuk dapat sembuh dan kembali membangun masa depan yang cemerlang. Setelah berbagai hal aku lewati, dan aku selalu berdoa untuk kesembuhanku.

Alhamdulillah Allah telah membukakan pintu kebahagiaan dan rezeki kepadaku. Hingga sampai saat ini aku dapat bekerja dan mencoba membuat keluargaku merasa bahagia. Aku bertanya agar ibuku hanya tinggal dirumah. Dan aku yang akan bekerja. Kerja keras yang dilakukan dengan ikhlas,semangat dan diiringi dengan do’a,aku yakin akan menuai baik hasilnya. Terima kasih Ya Allah,karena telah memberikan kebahagiaan padaku hingga saat ini. Dan aku dapat kembali sehat dan melakukan aktifitas dengan normal,juga tak lupa untuk selalu mengucap syukur dan berdo’a pada Allah,Tuhanku. Bagiku,kesehatan adalah hal yang begitu mahal bahwa kita harus mencoba untuk selalu menjaga kondisi kesehatan kita. Bagiku,keluarga adalah anugerah terpenting yang harus kita jaga dan sayangi.

Hri berganti hari, bulan berganti bulan, tahun berganti tahun, hingga aku akan berada pada awal tahun 2015. Hari ini adalah kunci untuk hari esok. Jika kita melakukan sesuatu yang baik pada hari ini, aku yakin esok kita akan mendapatkan hari yang terbaik. Aku berharap Allah selalu memberikan hari terindah untuk hidupku,keluargaku, dan para sahabat semua. Semoga Allah selalu memberikan kebahagiaan untuk kita semua. Allah ada di hati kita, Allah yang maha pengasih dan maha penyayang. Terima kasih dan syukur aku ucapkan.

Eid Al-Fitr

Eid al-Fitr (Arabic: عيد الفطر ‘Eid al-Fitr) is a Muslim feast which falls on the 1st of Shawwal in Hijri calendar. Because the determination of Shawwal 1 based on the circulation of the month, then the Eid falls on a different date each year when seen from the gregorian calendar. How to determine the 1 Syawal also vary, so may be there are some Muslims who celebrate it on a different gregorian calendar. On the 1st of Shawwal start at the end of the fasting month of Ramadan, and then celebrate Eid. Early morning is always performed Salat Eid (Eid prayers), salat Eid al-fitr in the field or even the highway (especially in big cities) if the area is not enough to accommodate worshipers worship. Ied in prayer before the priest did remind anyone who has not paid zakat fitrah, because if finished prayers ied its new pay zakat alms ordinary law is not charity. The law of the Eid Prayer is Sunnah mu’akkad. On the evening before and after the feast, Muslims sunnah to peal takbir. In Indonesia frequent prayer Minal ‘Aidin wal-Faizin, in fact it is the tradition of the people of Southeast Asia. According to most scholars speech is no based on the speech of the Prophet Muhammad. These words originally came from a poet in the Al-Andalus, which was named Shafiyuddin Al-Huli, when he brought the poem in the context about women in feast. There is sunnah to say greeting Taqaballahu minna waminkum (“May Allah accept our deeds and you”) or Taqabbalallahu minna wa waminkum ahalahullahu ‘alaik (“May Allah accept (good deeds) from us and from you all and may God perfected upon you” etc.”) Muslims in Indonesia make Eid as a major feast day, moment to regroup with family, especially families who for some reason, such as a job or marriage, must be separated. Starting two weeks before Eid, Muslims in Indonesia began to busy thinking about the celebration of this feast, the main thing is mudik, or Going Home, so the government was facilitated by improving the roads impassable. Eid al-Fitr in Indonesia is celebrated as a national holiday, which is celebrated by most people who are predominantly Muslim Indonesia. Typically, the determination of Eid is determined by the government, but some Islamic organizations to define that differently. Eid called Lebaran in Indonesia, where most of the people back home (mudik and balik) to celebrate with family. During the celebration, a variety of dishes served. The most popular dish in Eid celebrations in Indonesia is a ketupat, which is very familiar in Indonesia, Malaysia, Brunei, and Singapore. For the children, usually the parents give money to their feast. During the celebration, people usually visit homes to neighbors or relatives to stay in touch, which is known as “halal bi-halal”, and forgiveness apologize to them. Some state officials also held an open house for people who want to stay in touch. In Malaysia, Singapore, and Brunei, Eid is also known as Hari Raya Puasa, Eid al-fitri or Hari Raya fitrah(disposition). People in Malaysia and Singapore also celebrate with Muslim communities around the world. As in Indonesia, the night before the celebration always shouted takbir in mosques or mosque, which reveals the victory and greatness of Allah, God Muslims. In village, usually a lot of people who turn on a lamp, or torch in Indonesian. Many banks, private and government offices closed during Eid celebrations until the end of the week. People here usually were saying “Selamat Hari Raya” or “Selamat IdulFitri” and “Apologize for emotional and physical” as an expression of apology to others. In Malaysia there is also a tradition balik kampung, or mudik in Indonesia. Here also there is the tradition of giving money from parents to children, which is known as the highway money. Muslims are a minority in the Philippines, so most people are not so familiar with this celebration. However, Eid is set up as a national holiday by the government under Republic Act No.. 9177 and valirom 13 November 2002.

Sleep Position To Know Your Character.

Did you know that sleeping position one can show his personality. There are 6 sleeping position can be attributed to one’s personality.

1. Fetal

Fetal sleep with a sideways position, with legs bent and arms resemble the baby in the womb. This sleeping position shows that you are: Someone who looks tough on the outside, but actually has a gentle heart and a sensitive, shy, have rapid recharge capability .

2. Login

Logs are sleeping on your side with your legs straight and hands on the same side, like wood. This sleeping position shows that you are: Someone who is outgoing and has many friends Easily trust strangers who are not known, and even sometimes gullible .

3. Yearner

Yearner is sleeping sideways position, with legs straight down, but the hand straight toward the front. This sleeping position shows that you are: Someone who is open, alert, and sometimes suspicious and cynical Takes a long time to make a decision It’s hard to change minds

4. Soldier

Soldier is sleeping supine position, with legs and arms straight down at his sides lies. This sleeping position shows that you are: Someone who is quiet and happy to observe others, not like the crowd, having high standards, both for oneself and others.

5. Free Faller

Free faller is prone sleeping position with both hands on the side of the head and legs straight down. This sleeping position shows that you are: Someone less polite Looks like someone who likes to make friends Shameless Appeared confident,can not accept criticism from others.

6. Starfish

Starfish is supine sleeping position with both hands on the side of the head and legs straight down. This sleeping position shows that you are: Someone who can be a good friend a good listener, like to help and simple always seemed cheerful in any situation.

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500px app and New Backgrounds!

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Nasi Tumpeng

I’ve cooking this food today for lunch,It’s nice 😉 Indonesian food that i like,called “nasi tumpeng”. I’ll share with you all how to cook this food,this is very easy.

Nasi Tumpeng.

ingredients:
-1 kilogram of rice fluffier , wash
-1 liter of coconut milk
-Sufficient water to soak the rice
yellow seasoning:
-2 knuckles turmeric or you can also use 2 t-ablespoon turmeric powder.
-2 stalks lemongrass, crushed
-2 bay leaves
-salt to taste.
-MSG(monosodium glutamate)
other:
-cucumber
-eggs
-roasted peanut
-Omelet, sliced ​​lengthwise
-kerupuk(crackers)
how to make:
-First soak rice, in water that has been mixed with grated / powdered turmeric.
-Allow the rice marinade for ± 30 minutes and then steamed for 30 minutes.
-while waiting for steamed,boiled milk coconut,lemongrass,bay leaves,salt and MSG while stirring until boiling.
-Enter the rice and cook, stirring frequently, until the water is absorbed.
Furthermore, steamed until cooked ± 20 minutes. lift.

then you can add cucumber, eggs, nuts, and crackers when you arrange that “nasi tumpeng ” on a plate.

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REFLECTION OF LIFE

Everyday brings: A new case,fresh start,beautiful and new brand. 

Do you worry about the future and forget about the present?
So you don’t live in the present, and also in the future.
Do you live as if you live forever,and then die as if you’ve never lived.
Do you work so hard and lose your health to earn money,
then you lose money to restore your health?

Life teaches us many things,if only we listen.
You can’t make people love you,all you can do is let yourself be loved.
It is not good to compare yourself with others.
Learning to forgive is to practice forgiveness.
And to forgive others,you must forgive yourself .

Just take a few seconds to open profound wounds,
on the person you love.
And takes many years to heal them.
The richest person isn’t the person who most have many,
but the people with the least need.
Two people can see the same thing,and see it in a different way.
Learning to respect others,be cheerful giver.
And always be thankful for the beautiful life.
Live your life fully, sincere, and loving.

Batu Suli

Batu Suli is an amazing natural tourist attraction in the village tumbles Manange or Upon Stone, District Tewah, Gunung Mas, Central Kalimantan. The scenery is beautiful and fascinating, shaped large rock that stood towering Kahayan river. In terms of local culture Batu Suli is known as a fairly populist legend, the peak of Batu Suli there are piles of stones called Antang Stone (Stone Tingkes / puzzle) has the meaning “narrow corridor”. In addition to the existing philosophy in Batu Suli attraction is also famous for its beauty and panaroma around the site is still beautiful and attractive as a tourist. With a background Kahajan add value to the beauty of nature Panoroma Batu Suli.

 

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There is few food that you don’t eat after exercise

For you who want to lose your weight, you may need to do exercise. But it uselles if you do exercise, you still spoil your diet. Like revenge you eat anything as your tounge and stomach want. That habit just made you more to get weight. After exercise, you need some food has special intake to your body. You’ve to eat some food had protein and carbohydrate. And don’t eat few food after exercise. This is few thing you don’t eat after exercise:

a).Raw vegetables
These foods don’t have enough calories, carbohydrates, good fats, and proteins to meet the needs of the body after exercise.

b).Snack fiber
Not all high-fiber snack or energy bars can restore the strength of the body. Some actually contain too much sugar. It is not good for the body .

c).Sodas and energy drinks
Energy drinks can indeed replace body electrolytes lost during exercise. But it also contains high sugar. Should drink only mineral water .

d).Cereals
Before eating cereal, first check sugar content. If too high, you should avoid first. Pick the low sugar content, and mixed with low-fat milk.

e).Meat
Piece of meat for lunch is not wrong. But if it is the meat in the packaging, meaning it contains a lot of salt and chemicals. Choose fresh meat .

f).Burger and fries
Red meat in the burger symmetric body is hard to digest, especially after exercise. In addition , the contents of the burger is also high in saturated fat. The same foods high in salt .

g).Chocolate and milk
When you feel weak after exercise, the desired food is chocolate first. Hold yourself, because these foods are high in sugar, salt, and fat. However, dark chocolate can help you with anti – inflammatory properties and anti – oksidan.

 

Wonderful of Indonesia at Lombok-west nusa tenggara

Lombok Island is an island in the Lesser Sunda islands or Nusa Tenggara are separated by the Lombok Strait from Bali to the west and the Alas Strait to the east of Sumbawa. This island is roughly spherical with a kind of “tail” on the southwest side whose length is approximately 70 km. The island reaches 5,435 km ², placing it on the list based on the breadth of the island in the world. The main town on the island is Mataram City.
Kuta Beach: Lombok is a tourist spot on the island of Lombok,West Nusa Tenggara , Indonesia. Beach with white sand is located in a village called “Desa Kuta” . Kuta village started to become attractive tourist destination in Indonesia since the establishment of many new hotels. Besides the natural beauty that can be enjoyed in this village,once a year Sasak ceremony held in the village . It is a ceremony of Bau Nyale. In this ceremony Nyale sailors looking for worms in the sea. According to legend,there was once a princess , named Princess Mandalika , very pretty, lots of prince and youth who want to marry her. Because she can’t take a decision, then she plunged into the sea water. She previously promised that she will come back once a year . Her long hair became the Nyale worms .

Kuta Beach is likely to become a new icon for tourism Lombok Island. It could be said that because of development around the Kuta Beach area solid start , just as the construction of luxury hotels and also Lombok International Airport.